I don’t feel like anyone talks about the fact that Disney princesses don’t typically go after the guys, they go after what they want (go to the ball, the right to choose their fates, more than what they have etc) and then it’s actually the guys who go after the person. Yeah they could fall in love with the prince, but they go about their lives, the princes and heroes are the ones who are like, “I lost her once, it’s not going to happen again.”
So moral of the Princess films is that females need to go after what they want. And they also let people know that if someone really deserves you, they’ll chase you. If they don’t, then screw ‘em, you still get what you want in the end.